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Carry Water Coaching

Simon Pulfrey

ICF Certified Coach and Physician

Are you where you want to be?

Physician-first coaching with Simon Pulfrey. After more than two decades in emergency medicine, he meets physicians where they are — supporting leadership in the workplace, leadership of self, and the mitigation of burnout.

Where coaching helps

Built for physicians

Leadership in the workplace

For physicians stepping into formal or informal leadership — showing up authentically, making hard decisions, and sustaining influence.

Leadership of self

For doctors navigating grief, loss, and transition while staying present for patients, colleagues, and the people they love.

Burnout and regeneration

For physicians at, near, or recovering from burnout — leaning in, hanging tough, and letting go with clarity and compassion.

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What Clients Experience

Coaching matters when insight changes how physicians lead, decide, and carry their work.

I sought his guidance to address burnout, but our conversations quickly expanded to identifying core values, making value-driven decisions, and confronting the false promise of avoidance. Simon's approach helped me tackle anxiety and regain my work capacity.

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Coaching client

The name

Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.

After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. The tasks of a life do not disappear because we grow. What changes is how we meet them — with more clarity, more agency, and more compassion for ourselves along the way.

Coaching is not advice-giving or therapy. It is a partnership: a thinking space where you set the agenda, and I help you look honestly at what is happening, what matters, and what you want to do next.

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River gorge at dusk

Start with a conversation

The first exploratory session is 30 minutes and free of charge — a chance to see whether this way of working fits you.